We people think too much as this too much leads to disturbance, distraction from work and many more. Especially girls, they overthink (as per to my experience overthinking also creates doubts). Before doing anything we think so much and it happens everytime.
People have tendency to think in every age …the only thing that changes….
their issues like teenagers have silly issues and they think on them as they have nothing to do else. In 20s; girls have other different issues and the cycle of thinking goes on n on….We think, to find better solution to our problems or issues whateva it is. But then to i really dont understand why we think that much and this thinking process is so wierd sometimes.(when i think on stupid things)
Being in your 20’s is hard! You’re no longer at school or University and are expected to start making your own decisions and leading the path for your own life. You swing between thinking life is so unfair, wishing you could go back to school and wanting more independence, but it doesn’t have to be so hard!
You can’t force friendships
In your 20’s, I can guarantee you’ll have an issue with friendships. Most people are saddened by the fact that University friendships fizzle out almost as quickly as they started, and old school friends have new friends to hang out with. Don’t dwell on these things, give your friendships a few chances but don’t lose sleep over people who can’t be bothered to stay in your life. Cut ties, stop caring, shrug your shoulders and feel so much better! Don’t force friendships, it’ll only make you miserable. Count the good friends you have already, even if most of them are family members!
We’ve spent so many years luking forward to this(20s) phase of life. And it always looked so cool. So glamorous. So filled with love and laughter.
Its messy buns and messy lives, baggy shirts. Lots of work and never enough money. Its freedom with responsibilities and life is no longer what it seemed like. DIFFERENT PEOPPLE ARE DOING DIFFERENT THINGS. But not you. You’re just existing, you’re getting through everyday a littlt better than the last. But then you have days where you can’t get up at all. This life you’re living doesn’t feel complete. Loneliness wraps and you wonder where you went wrong. Why you became different to everyone else.
Did I not do enough? Was there a reason why its never me? Is this going to be the rest of my life? Alone? Unsuccessful? Filled with dreams that never come true?
And then your hands reach out to your phone. One text. One call to someone who might make you feel pretty. And it is so strong, you forget your sanity for a few minutes of flattery. But its never enough. And when you wake up, its worse. You scream hateful words to yourself when will I ever learn? And in that moment, read that words.
So please, dont hate yourself. Dont stop dreaming of fairytales and being as amazing as Malala Yousafzai. You may not always get there, but dont stop. And ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS remember Its okey to be alone. You deserve to wake up with a smile. You deserve to live a life. To make memories so wild. Breathe! Its only your mid 20-s. You’re going to be alright.:-)
Now that I am at the tip of the ten-year iceberg known as my twenties, I have realized that simply is not true. Our 20s are a lot of things. Sometimes they are awesome. Sometimes they are ugly. Sometimes they are fun. Sometimes they are painful. Sometimes they are confusing. Sometimes they are enlightening. But one thing is for sure…they are anything BUT easy.